Thursday, November 29, 2012

Reverse Your Break Up - Both Men & Women!

When it comes to getting an ex back, most of it is knowing how to reverse your break up. Especially if you were the one who was dumped.

Reversing a break up boils down to re-attracting your girlfriend again. It can be about getting your ex to want you back and chase you.

If you committed a lot of breakup mistakes before going into no contact, you have to reverse those mistakes after the no contact rule. You have to get your ex to see you in a good light again.
  • Did you beg, plead, and try to convince your ex they were wrong in breaking up with you?
  • Did you fight with your ex about the break up?
  • Did you say mean and hurtful things to your ex that you now regret?
  • Did you stalk your ex, or harass your ex with loads of texts, calls or emails?
  • Did you try to manipulate them to come back by buying them gifts?   
If you did these things, you have to reverse them and fix them. You will have to re-attract your ex girlfriend or boyfriend.

That's the key after the no contact:

It's about reversing your break up! You should've spent a long time in no contact kicking your ex off your pedestal and getting back your own power. Don't give it up once you contact your ex again.

A lot of people will do that. They will appear needy and desperate again and start chasing. This will end up driving your ex away. This is the opposite of re-attracting your ex.

Don't do it. Remember, you have to reverse things subtly. That means not appearing overly obvious while you're subconsciously reminding her why she was attracted to you to begin with.

However, if you're the one who broke up with your ex and rejected them. You will have to reverse this, because it is you who told your ex you did not want them anymore.

Convincing your ex that you're sincere about wanting them back is no easy task. Especially if you cheated on them. That is a different ball game than if you were the one who was dumped. 

If you don't know what to do after the no contact rule, you're not on the right path to getting your ex back. This should have been learned during no contact after a break up.

It's important that you learn about the no contact rule as well as what to do during no contact with an ex. This no contact stage is an important part of the get your ex back strategy.

I've written two free ebooks that explains in detail about the importance of the no contact rule after a break up. Click the links below to read and download them.

  1. Click here to get Behind No Contact free ebook
  2. Click this link to get The Rules of No Contact free ebook.   
As I've stated over and over, getting your ex back is a process. It's not about one magical thing to say to your ex to make them want you back.

It's not about one magical tactic to make them want you back. It's a series of doing and saying the right things to seduce them back.

The more of the steps within the process you miss the more you decrease your chances of getting back together with your ex. 

The more you know, the better chance you'll have at success. That goes for anything in life. Be sure to watch this free video on exactly why you're failing to get your ex back.


  1. Compliment Texts From Text Your Ex Back By Michael Fiore! 
  2. The Rules of No Contact! How No Contact Rule Works! 
  3. The Misconception Between The No Contact Rule & How To Get Her Back! 

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