Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Breaking Up and No Contact

This article is going to reveal what the real purpose of no contact really is. As I've pointing out throughout this blog, many people have it all wrong when it comes to breaking up and no contact. This article is meant to set you and those others straight and reveal the real purpose behind the no contact rule.

Now, the biggest mistake that most make is thinking that the no contact rule will get your ex back. Now, even though the truth is that no contact can help you to get you your ex back, no contact is just a tactic. And this tactic's main purpose is not to re-attract or win your ex back.

When you've just undergone a break up, there are a lot of emotions you'll be feeling. You'll be feeling rejected, hurt, and depressed. These emotions will make you feel like a loser, unattractive, and you'll be in a lot of pain.

I know this because I've been there. I'm sure you've heard that so many times, but it's true. We've all experienced the emotional turmoil of a break up. It's a hard ordeal to go through.

That's what the no contact rule's purpose is. You see, breaking up and no contact is just a way to allow you the time to heal and get over a break up. You have to get over a break up if you want to get your ex back. Even if you don't want her back, no contact is a way to distance yourself from your ex.

Do not mistake this important fact. When you're emotional after a break up, and you will be, you'll need time away from her to get your head on straight, your emotions under control, and to heal from the break up.

You do not want to go back to your ex still carrying the emotions you felt after a break up. Your resentment of the break up will not get you any closer to getting an ex back. In fact, you'll end up pushing your ex away.

So many people don't get this fact. They're too worried about what no contact does to their ex. They wonder if no contact will make their ex miss them or want them back or whatever misconceptions they have about this tactic.

This is NOT what the no contact rule is suppose to do. A lot of people don't understand that in order to get your ex back you HAVE to heal from the break up. It sounds counter-intuitive, but it's really not.

YOU HAVE TO HEAL FROM THE BREAK UP FIRST!

You have be moving on, or else when you do meet up with your ex girlfriend, the emotions of the break up will return. You won't handle it correctly, and as I've seen so many times, you'll end up blowing it with your ex girlfriend.

I advise you to read my article for a few helpful tips on how to get through a break up. Just click the link to read the article, and I also advise you to download my free ebook about the no contact rule.

Like I mentioned, it doesn't matter whether you want to get her back or you just want help to move on, no contact should be implemented to help you achieve this.

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