Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Signs of Low Interest Level From A Female!

It doesn't matter if you're trying to get your ex back or trying to read the signs of low interest level in a female you've just met. The information here pertains to both situations.

Why is that? It's because it's all based on attraction. Getting your ex back is based on attraction just as much as trying to get with someone new.

However, when it comes to someone having low interest level in you it means they aren't attracted. The problem with most guys is that they waste their time on women who have low interest in them. So here's some signs to watch out for.

1. Is she looking at you when talking?

If you're talking to her and she isn't facing you or shifts her body in your direction, you do not have her full attention nor does she want to give it to you. What's even more important is eye contact when speaking. 

If she doesn't maintain eye contact with you at least 80% of the time and is constantly looking around while conversing, her interest level is low or she does not feel comfortable around you.

2. How much does she contribute to the conversation?

Look, if she is giving you very short answers or not adding much to the conversation, you do not interest her much at all. If you're texting your ex or some chick you just met and you're getting short replies, she is just replying to be polite. If she is doing this most of the time, take the hint. You have not raised her interest level in you, and chances are, you're texting her boring things.  Stop giving her attention.

If you're ex girlfriend is giving you short text answers, this is a good and bad sign. It's good that she is at least answering you back. However, your ex's interest level is still low.

This means you're not engaging your ex in a way which can re-ignite the sparks of attraction. Nor, are you subtly planting positive images of you in her mind.

If you're getting short replies from your ex girlfriend you really need to check out the Michael Fiore Text Your Ex Back system. This system will teach the process of right things to say to your ex to re-attract them back to you. 

3.  She turns her back to you or away from!

This should be really simple to read, but most guys don't get it. If you're talking to a gal and she turns her back to you to talk to someone else, it's a sign the conversation is over and for you to get lost. 

This is a blocking mechanism to exclude you from interaction. Let's say someone she knew came up from behind her that she knew and she turned to say hello. If she liked you, she would quickly reposition herself to allow you to interact with her and the person she knew. When she keeps her back to you or attention away from you, she does not have a very high level of interest in you.

4. She doesn't return your calls!

Okay, this is pretty obvious and doesn't really require any further explanation. Move on!

If this is your ex girlfriend, what you should do really depends on where you are after the breakup. If the breakup is recent, like three weeks or so, you need to learn how the no contact rule works and how to use it.

However, if you have kids, you can't use the no contact rule. You'll need to learn what's called the limited contact rule and get the Text Your Ex Back system by Michael Fiore in order to know the right things to say to your ex to re-attract them again.  

5. She doesn't ask you your name!

Here's a trick I learned from the How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams book by Corey Wayne when it comes to gauging a woman's interest level. Let's say you met someone while out and about and engage in some light conversation. Sometime while conversing you are going to ask her name, but after she gives it you, shut up and keep silent for a bit. You are going to wait for her to ask you your name. If she doesn't, it's an obvious sign her interest level in you is fairly low.

On the other hand, if she asks you her name before you ask her, her interest level is high for the moment. Keep on attracting her.

6. She doesn't ask you questions!

Getting to know someone involves asking questions. A woman does this to get information to size you up and see what kind of guy you are. 

Just recently, I met a fairly attractive woman at my local. After a while of talking about John Hughes 80s movies and The Goonies, she mentioned her age and asked me how old I was.

This is a sign of interest. A woman doesn't ask you questions about yourself if she doesn't have some level of interest in you. In this case, she was seeing if I was too old or too young or in the age bracket acceptable for her to take it further.

7. She doesn't offer information about herself!

Look, people who are willing to carry on a conversation will start to offer information about themselves at some point. It's part of being social beings. If she isn't offering any information about herself, she doesn't want you to get to know her. 

If this is your ex girlfriend, she still has no wish to let you in her life for the moment. This means, in terms of trying to get an ex back, you have no clue nor strategy on how to do this.

No clue + no strategy = your ex forever having a low level of interest for you! That can be translated into never getting your ex back!  

8. She keeps her phone calls short...everytime!

When you find yourself calling a woman and she is always getting off the phone quickly with you, it's the same thing as telling you she doesn't want to talk to you. This is low interest level and you are wasting your time on this woman.

If this is your ex girlfriend, the situation is a bit different. The fact she answers your calls is a decent sign. It means she is NOT indifferent to you nor completely wants you out of her life...yet!

However, it's not a very good sign either. It means you are NOT re-attracting her interest in you. And I will bet that it also means you have NO CLUE on how to get your ex back nor bothered to even get a strategy on how to do so. 

9. Constantly breaking dates!

A woman who has a high level of interest in you while move heaven and earth to find the time to be with you despite how busy she is. If she's constantly breaking dates, you just may be her back up plan for when nothing better comes along and she's bored.

However, if she does break a date with you and offers an alternative day, it just may be that something came up. Her interest level in you isn't low in this case, but I wouldn't say it's necessarily high either. It's probably about mid-range.

Still, mid-range leaves an opening to raise her interest level higher. Do NOT confuse offering an alternative day with this line she may give you, "I'm sorry something came up. How about we try it some other time."
  
That's still a low level of interest. She would offer at least a specific day she was available to see if you were available that day. If she does give you the "some other time" line crap, you can respond by asking her the next time she is free. 

If your ex is breaking meet ups with you, do not be indenial here. You are messing up, because you do NOT know the strategy on getting your ex girlfriend back.

10. She keeps her distance from you!

Does she lean toward you when talking? This is a big sign I've learned to spot to see if a woman has some kind of interest in me. Leaning in like the top picture is always a good sign of interest. Leaning away like in the bottom picture is not good! From the pictures it's pretty obvious to see which one is more interested and which gal has a lower level of interest.

Does she touch you or playfully hits or slaps your arm? A woman will do this for a variety of reasons. If she hits or playfully slaps your arm while laughing this is a good sign. You are teasing her and building tension.

If she taps your arm with her hand, it's another good sign. She is trying to get your attention about something, but the key to remember here is that she wants your attention.

People don't want to be touched by others they have no interest in, nor do they want to touch them. If you touch her arm and she pulls away, she desires to maintain an acceptable distance from you. Not a good sign.

11. She never initiates contact with you!

I can better explain this by examples. I had one ex girlfriend whom, after the breakup, never initiated contact with me at all. Not to see how I was doing or to say what's up! Nada...nothing! Extremely low level of interest there, but it was mutual.

However, my friend met a lady at our local and exchanged numbers. They never contacted each other, but often saw each other there. Well, she initiated contact with him and started to ask if he was going to be there or to meet there, etc. This is a high level of interest.

As you can see from these signs of low interest level from a female, it's important to be able to gauge how a woman feels about you. Either way it all boils down to simple attraction.

This is true for both trying to re-attract your ex and for attracting a woman you just met. When you can properly gauge a woman's interest level, you can determine if it's better to just move on or to re-adjust your strategy so you can raise her level of interest. 

Nevertheless, knowing the signs of low interest level is just one step in the attraction game. The real question you should be asking yourself is do you know how to raise her level of interest in you. If you don't, it's about time you did.                

Sunday, December 9, 2012

Corey Wayne How To Be A 3% Man - Attracting Your Ex Back!

The thing that most people who are trying to get their ex back or attract an ex back is that doing so all boils down to the principles of attraction! After all, you had to attract your ex girlfriend or boyfriend to begin with, right?

Sure you did, and if you were broken up with then your ex must have lost that attraction for you somewhere down the line. If you are trying to get your ex back, don't forget this principle. Being in denial about it will only hinder your chances of getting your ex girlfriend back.

I am no newcomer to the attraction community or the so-called principles of these so called attraction and seduction gurus. Actually, a few of their pointers and tips actually got my girlfriend interested in me to begin with.

However, I recently got a copy of Corey Wayne's book How To Be A 3% Man, and I absolutely love it. Very clear, very precise, and easy to comprehend and follow. 

But that's just not it at all. The reason why I love this book is because it details exactly what a lot of guys are doing wrong to attract women.

Not only does it show what guys are doing wrong with women. This book also shows exactly the mindset and how you should handle yourself in being attractive to women.

Corey Wayne tells you exactly what to say when handling women's tests, what to say when approaching a woman, asking a woman out, and the most important principle:


GETTING AND KEEPING THEM ATTRACTED TO YOU!  

The principles he teaches in his book also rings true for how so many guys out there are blowing it in trying to get an ex girlfriend back. The concepts he teaches are incredibly similar to what I teach and other get your ex back strategists teach about the mindset you should be developing during the no contact rule with your ex.

For instance, Corey Wayne stresses a lot about level of interest towards you a girl may or not have. It's crucial to pay attention and discover a woman's interest level in you.

This is the same with getting an ex back, and Michael Fiore has what's called Across The Bow Text messages to find this out after the no contact rule. 

[click the link to see Text Your Ex Back Examples of Across The Bow Texts].

One of the primary functions for Across the Bow texts is to gauge how your ex feels about you after no contact.

Do they respond positively, neutral, negative, or not at all? You should be worried most about the last one - if your ex doesn't respond to you at all.

That means they are indifferent towards you, and that's not a good thing at all. If they respond positively or negatively, they are both good things.

Why? It's because they still feel something towards you and love and hate are fine lines between the two. Even if your ex is still pissed off at you, you can still reverse this feeling.

Sending an Across the Bow Text gauges how your ex responds and let's you know if you need a bit more of no contact or not. No matter whether they respond positively, neutral, or negatively do not start over texting your ex!

This is a true fact even in the world of "Attraction". Don't over text a girl, or they will end up getting bored with you quicker.

Over texting a girl shows them you are needy and desperate and have nothing else going on in their life. It shows them that they are your only option.

If you are clueless about the principles of attraction in getting women attracted to you, I recommend you learn them. After all, you have to re-attract your ex to get them back, right?

For you guys who are serious about getting your ex back, I highly recommend How To Be A 3% Man by Corey Wayne! Learn how to be attractive to women and get them to chase you.

You can buy a hard copy of Corey Wayne: How To Be A 3% Man (which I did), or you can buy the Kindle version for only .99 cents! Not bad, and either is worth every penny.

Just click on the links or the big cover image above to start learning how to attract the woman of your dreams or attract back your ex! 

Also, you should get Michael Fiore's Text Your Ex Back system, so you can learn exactly what to say and text to reverse your breakup and get your ex attracted to you again.

These two amazing systems together will give you the most powerful edge in attraction and getting your ex back! Don't miss out on another second!