Why is that? It's because it's all based on attraction. Getting your ex back is based on attraction just as much as trying to get with someone new.
However, when it comes to someone having low interest level in you it means they aren't attracted. The problem with most guys is that they waste their time on women who have low interest in them. So here's some signs to watch out for.
1. Is she looking at you when talking?
If you're talking to her and she isn't facing you or shifts her body in your direction, you do not have her full attention nor does she want to give it to you. What's even more important is eye contact when speaking.
If she doesn't maintain eye contact with you at least 80% of the time and is constantly looking around while conversing, her interest level is low or she does not feel comfortable around you.
2. How much does she contribute to the conversation?
Look, if she is giving you very short answers or not adding much to the conversation, you do not interest her much at all. If you're texting your ex or some chick you just met and you're getting short replies, she is just replying to be polite. If she is doing this most of the time, take the hint. You have not raised her interest level in you, and chances are, you're texting her boring things. Stop giving her attention.
If you're ex girlfriend is giving you short text answers, this is a good and bad sign. It's good that she is at least answering you back. However, your ex's interest level is still low.
This means you're not engaging your ex in a way which can re-ignite the sparks of attraction. Nor, are you subtly planting positive images of you in her mind.
If you're getting short replies from your ex girlfriend you really need to check out the Michael Fiore Text Your Ex Back system. This system will teach the process of right things to say to your ex to re-attract them back to you.
3. She turns her back to you or away from!
This should be really simple to read, but most guys don't get it. If you're talking to a gal and she turns her back to you to talk to someone else, it's a sign the conversation is over and for you to get lost.
This is a blocking mechanism to exclude you from interaction. Let's say someone she knew came up from behind her that she knew and she turned to say hello. If she liked you, she would quickly reposition herself to allow you to interact with her and the person she knew. When she keeps her back to you or attention away from you, she does not have a very high level of interest in you.
4. She doesn't return your calls!
Okay, this is pretty obvious and doesn't really require any further explanation. Move on!
If this is your ex girlfriend, what you should do really depends on where you are after the breakup. If the breakup is recent, like three weeks or so, you need to learn how the no contact rule works and how to use it.
However, if you have kids, you can't use the no contact rule. You'll need to learn what's called the limited contact rule and get the Text Your Ex Back system by Michael Fiore in order to know the right things to say to your ex to re-attract them again.
5. She doesn't ask you your name!
Here's a trick I learned from the How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams book by Corey Wayne when it comes to gauging a woman's interest level. Let's say you met someone while out and about and engage in some light conversation. Sometime while conversing you are going to ask her name, but after she gives it you, shut up and keep silent for a bit. You are going to wait for her to ask you your name. If she doesn't, it's an obvious sign her interest level in you is fairly low.
On the other hand, if she asks you her name before you ask her, her interest level is high for the moment. Keep on attracting her.
6. She doesn't ask you questions!
Getting to know someone involves asking questions. A woman does this to get information to size you up and see what kind of guy you are.
Just recently, I met a fairly attractive woman at my local. After a while of talking about John Hughes 80s movies and The Goonies, she mentioned her age and asked me how old I was.
This is a sign of interest. A woman doesn't ask you questions about yourself if she doesn't have some level of interest in you. In this case, she was seeing if I was too old or too young or in the age bracket acceptable for her to take it further.
7. She doesn't offer information about herself!
Look, people who are willing to carry on a conversation will start to offer information about themselves at some point. It's part of being social beings. If she isn't offering any information about herself, she doesn't want you to get to know her.
If this is your ex girlfriend, she still has no wish to let you in her life for the moment. This means, in terms of trying to get an ex back, you have no clue nor strategy on how to do this.
No clue + no strategy = your ex forever having a low level of interest for you! That can be translated into never getting your ex back!
8. She keeps her phone calls short...everytime!
When you find yourself calling a woman and she is always getting off the phone quickly with you, it's the same thing as telling you she doesn't want to talk to you. This is low interest level and you are wasting your time on this woman.
If this is your ex girlfriend, the situation is a bit different. The fact she answers your calls is a decent sign. It means she is NOT indifferent to you nor completely wants you out of her life...yet!
However, it's not a very good sign either. It means you are NOT re-attracting her interest in you. And I will bet that it also means you have NO CLUE on how to get your ex back nor bothered to even get a strategy on how to do so.
9. Constantly breaking dates!
A woman who has a high level of interest in you while move heaven and earth to find the time to be with you despite how busy she is. If she's constantly breaking dates, you just may be her back up plan for when nothing better comes along and she's bored.
However, if she does break a date with you and offers an alternative day, it just may be that something came up. Her interest level in you isn't low in this case, but I wouldn't say it's necessarily high either. It's probably about mid-range.
Still, mid-range leaves an opening to raise her interest level higher. Do NOT confuse offering an alternative day with this line she may give you, "I'm sorry something came up. How about we try it some other time."
That's still a low level of interest. She would offer at least a specific day she was available to see if you were available that day. If she does give you the "some other time" line crap, you can respond by asking her the next time she is free.
If your ex is breaking meet ups with you, do not be indenial here. You are messing up, because you do NOT know the strategy on getting your ex girlfriend back.
10. She keeps her distance from you!
Does she lean toward you when talking? This is a big sign I've learned to spot to see if a woman has some kind of interest in me. Leaning in like the top picture is always a good sign of interest. Leaning away like in the bottom picture is not good! From the pictures it's pretty obvious to see which one is more interested and which gal has a lower level of interest.
Does she touch you or playfully hits or slaps your arm? A woman will do this for a variety of reasons. If she hits or playfully slaps your arm while laughing this is a good sign. You are teasing her and building tension.
If she taps your arm with her hand, it's another good sign. She is trying to get your attention about something, but the key to remember here is that she wants your attention.
People don't want to be touched by others they have no interest in, nor do they want to touch them. If you touch her arm and she pulls away, she desires to maintain an acceptable distance from you. Not a good sign.
11. She never initiates contact with you!
I can better explain this by examples. I had one ex girlfriend whom, after the breakup, never initiated contact with me at all. Not to see how I was doing or to say what's up! Nada...nothing! Extremely low level of interest there, but it was mutual.
However, my friend met a lady at our local and exchanged numbers. They never contacted each other, but often saw each other there. Well, she initiated contact with him and started to ask if he was going to be there or to meet there, etc. This is a high level of interest.
As you can see from these signs of low interest level from a female, it's important to be able to gauge how a woman feels about you. Either way it all boils down to simple attraction.
This is true for both trying to re-attract your ex and for attracting a woman you just met. When you can properly gauge a woman's interest level, you can determine if it's better to just move on or to re-adjust your strategy so you can raise her level of interest.
Nevertheless, knowing the signs of low interest level is just one step in the attraction game. The real question you should be asking yourself is do you know how to raise her level of interest in you. If you don't, it's about time you did.